Category Archives: pastors

For Pastors on the Ashley Madison List

by Ray Carroll, with Roy Yanke from xpastor.org A few days ago I wrote a blog entitled, “My Pastor Was On The Ashley Madison List.” In it, I encouraged churches on how to handle the situation if they discovered their pastor was on the hacked website. Since that time, I’ve received several emails from pastors who are on that list…. Read more »

A Fallen Pastor Showed Up at Our Church

One of the most common questions I get from fallen pastors is, “I fell from the ministry and I’m having a difficult time finding a place to worship. What should I do?” You may be reading this and you’re not a fallen pastor – but you may be a church member, current pastor or a church leader. This topic is… Read more »

My Pastor Was On The Ashley Madison List

A few days ago, the list of people whose names were exposed as part of the hacking of the Ashley Madison site were released. Those names are now searchable on some websites and to those with a little computer savvy. It is easy to assume that a few heads will roll in the next few days. Probably not too many high-profile… Read more »

6 Things Leaders Can Do When a Pastor Falls

I wanted to be able to write something to help churches and leaders have a guide for when their pastor falls. The problem is that no two situations are quite alike. And yet, all situations are very similar. I want to give some help that comes from my experience and from the things I’ve read in the past four years…. Read more »

Is Repentance Possible For The Fallen Pastor?

When a pastor falls from the ministry, due to adultery, embezzlement, alcoholism, or whatever, the immediate desired response is that he repent on the spot. Repentance, as we know it, is a turning away from his sin and moving back toward God. Is repentance possible for the fallen pastor? If he has left his wife or committed adultery, he needs… Read more »

3 Common Questions About Fallen Pastors

I love helping (and am always more than happy to help) anyone who contacts me through this ministry, but I am closest to the messed up, confused world of the freshly fallen pastor. And it is a horrible place to be. I tell fallen pastors, “No one really understands fallen ministers like a fellow fallen minister.” One of the most… Read more »

Listen to My Interview on Church Folk Revolution Radio

I had the pleasure of interviewing TJ from Pimppreacher.com this week. Today, he had his Church Folk Revolution Radio show and had me on as a guest as they discussed, “Why Pastors Fall.” We talked about why pastors fall, the definition of fallen pastors, prevention, restoration and all kinds of other things about this ministry. It was a real joy… Read more »

How to Fix the Church: TJ from PimpPreacher.com, Part 3

In part 3 of our interview, we pick up on our conversation with TJ from Pimppreacher.com – make sure you read parts 1 and part 2 (about racism in the church) first. This is the last section of our interview and it hits the heart of his ministry and my ministry. During our conversation he said to me, “How did… Read more »

Pastor Accountability: TJ from PimpPreacher.com, Pt. 1

It was 2010, and Tyronne Jacques (TJ) had been working in public relations and had been out of the ministry for five years. He was a guest on a Sirius radio show discussing a book he had written, “How to Fight Google and Win.” The host brought up the topic of the reputation of the church. On the show, the… Read more »

Why Did Tullian Tchividjian Fall?

In the past five years I’ve been doing this ministry and helping fallen pastors and those hurt by their fall, the most common question I hear is, “Why did they do it?” This past Sunday, Pastor Tullian Tchividjian, grandson of Billy Graham, announced to his church, Coral Ridge Presbyterian, that he had been engaged in an “inappropriate relationship.” News spread… Read more »