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The Plague of Fallen Pastors: An Answer

ReadabilityThe Plague of Fallen Pastors: An AnswerI love the min­istry I’m able to do on this blog and what it’s become. Four years ago when I started, there was noth­ing like it. I began writ­ing because there wasn’t any­one out there, like me — a fallen pas­tor — who was reach­ing...

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helpYou may have stum­bled upon this page look­ing for help. That’s great, because that’s why I started blog­ging. I’m a for­mer fallen pas­tor who started blog­ging to clear my head. I started reach­ing out to try to find oth­ers to help me. Now, I hope I can help others.

Maybe you’re about to fall. You might be con­sid­er­ing leav­ing your spouse or the min­istry. Maybe you’ve already fallen and just want to talk to some­one. Maybe you’re the spouse or loved one of a fallen pas­tor and need some­one to talk to. Maybe you’re a con­fused church mem­ber left in the wake of a pas­tor who has com­mit­ted adul­tery. Or maybe you’re a church leader whose pas­tor has com­mit­ted a sin and you’re not sure what to do.

I don’t have all the answers, but I can lis­ten. Check out my con­tact page.

You’ll also find a lot of answers and help in my book, Fallen Pas­tor: Find­ing Rec­on­cil­i­a­tion in a Bro­ken World. There are a lot of posts on this blog that might answer ques­tions you already have (see below).

What­ever you do, don’t delay in reach­ing out to someone.

Also, if you are a woman who has been effected by a fall or is/​was a woman involved with a pas­tor, check out my wife’s blog, Fallen Pastor’s Wife.

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Here are some of my blog links if you are look­ing for some­thing to read right now. Whether you’re a pas­tor look­ing for help or some­one try­ing to make sense of the sit­u­a­tion, these are some posts that might lead you in the right direction:

Adul­tery: Don’t Try This at Home

Fallen Pas­tors Can Be Restored, A Per­sonal Tale, Part 1: Hosted by Pro­voke­tive Magazine

Fallen Pas­tors Can Be Restored, A Per­sonal Tale, Part 2: Hosted by Pro­voke­tive Magazine

Is Repen­tance Pos­si­ble for the Fallen Pastor?

Pas­toral Adul­tery Doesn’t Hap­pen Overnight

My Pas­tor Sinned, What Do I Do?

What Can The SBC Do About All Her Adul­ter­ous Pastors?

God Still Loves the Fallen Pastor

When Our Unfor­give­ness Turns to Hate

A Pastor’s Story That Has Haunted Me

1,500 Amer­i­cans are Dis­ap­pear­ing a Month — Did You Notice?

Putting the Fallen Pas­tor in His Place (Arti­cle for Pro­voke­tive Magazine)

Pas­tors and Killer Expec­ta­tions, Part 1: Where Do They Come From? (Four Part Series)

Jesus Took My Scar­let Let­ter and Stomped On It

A Sinner’s Guide to Find­ing a Church

When I’m Sorry Isn’t Enough (Three Part Series)

“Sex­ting”: Are There Rules?

“Sex­ting”: When It’s Okay

helpYou may have stumbled upon this page looking for help. That’s great, because that’s why I started blogging. I’m a former fallen pastor who started blogging to clear my head. I started reaching out to try to find others to help me. Now, I hope I can help others.

Maybe you’re about to fall. You might be considering leaving your spouse or the ministry. Maybe you’ve already fallen and just want to talk to someone. Maybe you’re the spouse or loved one of a fallen pastor and need someone to talk to. Maybe you’re a confused church member left in the wake of a pastor who has committed adultery. Or maybe you’re a church leader whose pastor has committed a sin and you’re not sure what to do.

I don’t have all the answers, but I can listen. Check out my contact page.

You’ll also find a lot of answers and help in my book, Fallen Pastor: Finding Reconciliation in a Broken World. There are a lot of posts on this blog that might answer questions you already have (see below).

Whatever you do, don’t delay in reaching out to someone.

Also, if you are a woman who has been effected by a fall or is/was a woman involved with a pastor, check out my wife’s blog, Fallen Pastor’s Wife.

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Here are some of my blog links if you are looking for something to read right now. Whether you’re a pastor looking for help or someone trying to make sense of the situation, these are some posts that might lead you in the right direction:

Adultery: Don’t Try This at Home

Fallen Pastors Can Be Restored, A Personal Tale, Part 1: Hosted by Provoketive Magazine

Fallen Pastors Can Be Restored, A Personal Tale, Part 2: Hosted by Provoketive Magazine

Is Repentance Possible for the Fallen Pastor?

Pastoral Adultery Doesn’t Happen Overnight

My Pastor Sinned, What Do I Do?

What Can The SBC Do About All Her Adulterous Pastors?

God Still Loves the Fallen Pastor

When Our Unforgiveness Turns to Hate

A Pastor’s Story That Has Haunted Me

1,500 Americans are Disappearing a Month – Did You Notice?

Putting the Fallen Pastor in His Place (Article for Provoketive Magazine)

Pastors and Killer Expectations, Part 1: Where Do They Come From? (Four Part Series)

Jesus Took My Scarlet Letter and Stomped On It

A Sinner’s Guide to Finding a Church

When I’m Sorry Isn’t Enough (Three Part Series)

“Sexting”: Are There Rules?

“Sexting”: When It’s Okay