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Pastors In Trouble 6: Pastors & Suicide

I started this series to try and focus on some specific topics and disturbing trends among pastors today. This blog exists because pastors have been committing adultery and have been in crisis for a while. But I’ve noticed a trend that is even more disturbing. I don’t...

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helpYou may have stumbled upon this page looking for help. That’s great, because that’s why I started blogging. I’m a former fallen pastor who started blogging to clear my head. I started reaching out to try to find others to help me. Now, I hope I can help others.

Maybe you’re about to fall. You might be considering leaving your spouse or the ministry. Maybe you’ve already fallen and just want to talk to someone. Maybe you’re the spouse or loved one of a fallen pastor and need someone to talk to. Maybe you’re a confused church member left in the wake of a pastor who has committed adultery. Or maybe you’re a church leader whose pastor has committed a sin and you’re not sure what to do.

I don’t have all the answers, but I can listen. Check out my contact page.

You’ll also find a lot of answers and help in my book, Fallen Pastor: Finding Reconciliation in a Broken World. There are a lot of posts on this blog that might answer questions you already have (see below).

Whatever you do, don’t delay in reaching out to someone.

Also, if you are a woman who has been effected by a fall or is/was a woman involved with a pastor, check out my wife’s blog, Fallen Pastor’s Wife.


Here are some of my blog links if you are looking for something to read right now. Whether you’re a pastor looking for help or someone trying to make sense of the situation, these are some posts that might lead you in the right direction:

Adultery: Don’t Try This at Home

Fallen Pastors Can Be Restored, A Personal Tale, Part 1: Hosted by Provoketive Magazine

Fallen Pastors Can Be Restored, A Personal Tale, Part 2: Hosted by Provoketive Magazine

Is Repentance Possible for the Fallen Pastor?

Pastoral Adultery Doesn’t Happen Overnight

My Pastor Sinned, What Do I Do?

What Can The SBC Do About All Her Adulterous Pastors?

God Still Loves the Fallen Pastor

When Our Unforgiveness Turns to Hate

A Pastor’s Story That Has Haunted Me

1,500 Americans are Disappearing a Month – Did You Notice?

Putting the Fallen Pastor in His Place (Article for Provoketive Magazine)

Pastors and Killer Expectations, Part 1: Where Do They Come From? (Four Part Series)

Jesus Took My Scarlet Letter and Stomped On It

A Sinner’s Guide to Finding a Church

When I’m Sorry Isn’t Enough (Three Part Series)

“Sexting”: Are There Rules?

“Sexting”: When It’s Okay